START TAKING CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE

Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far they can go. – T.S. Pilot

With time being passive overlaps the vigor and enthusiasm inside us. We always keep saying that we don’t get enough time to run certain activities or plan an outing with the family. Aside from those who really have a hectic schedule there are many who uses the scarcity of time as an excuse to escape. It’s high time now! Life is meant to be lived fully and not with compromises. Stop ignoring and prioritize your life because what matters in the end, is you and your happiness. Everything else can be taken care of once you put your life into line. Stand up and take charge of your life and here are few ways that can help you for the same.

·         Stop ignoring and try to be an opportunist: For all this time you treated your plans as secondary and valued other things more just because you afraid of failure. Afraid that things might not turn out as they were planned and what you have right now might become vulnerable too. Stop ignoring and fearing. Only when you do things you’ll get better. Take advantage of the opportunity and try to turn it to your benefit.

·         Don’t keep high expectations: You know best about yourself. Expecting high than what you can achieve will obviously lower your confidence when things do not turn up to your expectations. As said Rome wasn’t built in a day, you cannot reach the destination in a day. Plan your path, analyze the loopholes and then devise a method to cover for them.

·         Stop complaining about the time scarcity: As rightly said, if it’s important to you, you will have the time to do it. Adopt time management measures. Instead of wasting time in activities that are not benefitting you utilize the time to do something that really matters. Entertainment is necessary to refresh us but that does not mean that we spend hours every day watching series or movies.

·         Maintain a balance: You cannot ignore any of your responsibility or your work. In such situations, people tend to ignore their own self. Self-care is the must. When you will be mentally, emotionally and physically sound then only you can approach towards a right decision. Try to balance your life and keep a room for everything.

·         Start with small changes: Everything cannot change in a blink of an eye. It will take time. Better to start with small changes. For example, change your routine a bit to make space for alone time that could be used to meditate or analyze about what you want from life.